The Gost and the Mountain Jaive

Build Gost Mountain

Monday 16, 2021

Sensory Deprivation

Reduce all the sensory constructs. There is no input in the moment worthy than in the moment.

Always be Programming

Creativity requires deep work.Be creative at all costs. Agile. Module. Node. Always write programs. Do things the hard way.

The AGIT

Set a personal creative productions goals. And relentlessly, with Grit, Ganbaru and Sisu, close it down. Close it all down.

Cerebral

Be intense on the Cerebral and implemt.

Nodes

Develop nodes and relentless attack the problem

Asian Clean

What is the Marie Kondo method?
What is the KonMari Method? … The KonMari Method™ encourages tidying by category – not by location – beginning with clothes, then moving on to books, papers, komono (miscellaneous items), and, finally, sentimental items. Keep only those things that speak to the heart, and discard items that no longer spark joy.

Epic Work Only

MasterMind nodes in every suburb of Port Moresby

Exhaustive Work Ethic

Sunday Breakfasts

Never Talk About Family Again

Leave a biography of our works behind to move the darkness and change the line.

Just Another Day

‘Every time we’re together, It’d never be the same. If you’re not here, How can you stay away, away so long.’

Jon Seceda’s massive 1990’s hit brings back memories to me every time I hear it.

I think of the good times in Mt Hagen when my two older sisters Fiona and Anna would come up from Port Moresby during  school holidays.

They would have this song blasting on the stereo continuously as we would spend days spring cleaning the house, from top to bottom.

The mops and brooms would not just be cleaning tools but also impromptu microphones as we would all sing along, screaming on top of our lungs in the house in our little coffee patch.

For me, it was break from my little mixed world of being a half-nambis (coastal) kid growing up in a village where not many kids understood me.

I really loved my big sisters and I still do. It is one of those happy memories of my childhood, a little gem in time.

My two sisters represent two paths that diverged. Two stories of Papua New Guinea with different endings.

Fiona went on to become Papua New Guinea’s first female Petroleum Reservoir Engineer. She has a great career now.

Anna is a different story. She is my family’s heart break.

In the years afterwards, we went through a major downer with Anna, who was adopted.

We didn’t care if she was adopted or not. We loved her cause she was our sister. I loved her because she was my big sister.

But her adopted status meant a lot to her. In the end, she abandoned us.

I was too small and young to understand what happened.

Years later Anna died from complications due to AIDS. I don’t know how she ended up getting it. I don’t know how she died. She died alone.

When I got the news that she died, I disappeared for three days on the Highlands Highway, got so drunk and high on weed in tiny clubs in Chimbu and Goroka by myself.

After I sobered up I returned to life and pretended that it didnt affect me, because …as corny as this may sound…boys dont cry. But to this day, it still hurts.

You can read this story and deduce all kinds of moral themes here. Themes about growing up in Papua New Guinea, traditional adoption, career, choices and AIDS. I don’t really care.

Truth is, we are all just human, trying to find our own way in life. Sometimes it works out and sometimes, it just doesn’t.

My beautiful memory is my two big sisters who use to sing Jon Seceda’s  ‘Just Another Day Without You,’ together in a small house in a little coffee patch in Mt Hagen, in the super cold highlands of PNG, all those years ago when we were just kids.

Good Times. Love you forever sis.

http://youtu.be/CSqPbZnVjXQ

Memories of War

The war in Iraq and the war and counter-war on terrorism rages everyday on our television screens and newspapers
The terrible calamity of war is often forgotten amid the media orgy of bombings and beheadings. But if we took time to turn off our TV screens and close our newspapers, we would notice the tiny army of polite visitors who reach our shores and head off to far flung areas of PNG to say goodbye to loved ones who died in the most terrible war the world has ever seen — World War II.
Last week, 12 such visitors arrived in Lae and headed to Salamaua to say good bye to their fathers who died in Morobe during the war. These visitors were all elderly Japanese — the youngest may have been in his late 50s. Some of them last saw their fathers when they were very young, most of them never at all.
The visitors came from all over Japan, united in this pilgrimage.
After arriving in Salamaua, the visitors made their way along the narrow strip of land bordered by the sea on both sides that led to Salamaua point.
An old anti-aircraft gun was still positioned facing the sky as we passed and unexploded bombs lay half buried in the sand.
Finally they arrived at a playing field with rugby posts and a basketball court. They decided that here would be a good place to conduct their ancient ceremony to honour the spirits of their fathers.
Under the shade of an old mango tree, small flags of Papua New Guinea and Japan were unfurled and a small shrine was erected facing inland towards the mountains. This was because most of their fathers died in the jungles, or out at sea, in places hard to reach.
By conducting the ceremony at that point, they could encompass the ocean and the dark jungles in one act.
The visitors lit incense and put perfume, sweets and food on and around the alter.
One old man knelt before the shrine and the sad ceremony began.
With Buddhist beads they prayed, chanted songs and cried.
Later, after the ceremony was over and the boat cut back across the ocean towards Lae, one of the Japanese men told me his father died at sea somewhere underneath us.
“I was six-years-old when my father died here in the war. Nothing remains of him. He was 35 years old,” said Torikai Yasuhiko, pointing down towards the ocean floor.
He told me this was his first visit to PNG and he had come specifically to see this stretch of the ocean.
“I can’t stop crying,” he said. “I am so glad I came here.”
The 12 were taking a week long trip to Salamaua, Popondetta, Wewak and Port Moresby to conduct the ceremonies for their fathers.
I asked them how many were grandparents and great-grandparents. All of them held up their hands, showing different digits for the number of children they had, grand children and great grandchildren. It was smiles all around.
World War II consumed many lives. In Japan, as in America and other countries who were caught in it, there was a generations of fatherless children who grew up to become parents and parents of parents.
And every year, members of this generation make the voyage to PNG to honour their fathers who died in our jungles and oceans.

Weekend Edition Fri-Sun 05-07th November, 2004

(article I wrote in 2004) Source Post Courier

The Fall and the Sand

Not a single sad word needs to be said

No sound of mourning needs to be heard

No need to cry

Goodbye is Goodbye

Into battle we fall

Unwilling but with heart

Could we have saved you after all

When you were meant to leave us in the dark?

Life goes so fast

All these dreams will never be true

As you fall every minute into our past

In the hour that was your last, could we have saved you?

Angels laid flowers on your path

In the garden of life and death you walked past

We were holding on but you let go

We were fighting but you didn’t let us know

In the afterglow we took you home

In the sands we came to lay you down

So the earth would take your bones

And heaven your soul

Not single word needs to be said

No sound of mourning needs to be heard

No need to cry

Goodbye is Goodbye

~ RIP Sis

Leadership By Natural Design

The term above, is completely made up. I was walking around the historic outstation of Wau in Morobe Province and thinking about the different types of leaders and leadership types in PNG.
We have tribal leaders, leaders by authority, political leaders, leaders by corruption, leaders by brute force, leaders by criminal nature, etc, etc we have the whole rainbow range of leaders in PNG.

But do they practice leadership, and what exactly is leadership?  Continue reading “Leadership By Natural Design”

A KANAKA’S GUIDE TO FUNCTIONAL LEADERSHIP

The Functional Leadership theory argues that the leader’s main job is to see that whatever is necessary to group needs is taken care of; thus, a leader can be said to have done their job well when they have contributed to group effectiveness and cohesion (Fleishman et al., 1991; Hackman & Wageman, 2005; Hackman & Walton, 1986).

In a team or organisation, the functional leader type provides the following to improve the organisations efficiency;

Environmental monitoring – They observe the environment in and around the organisation and act where necessary to maintain a positive environment for their team and /or organisation. They provide the necessary tools and instructions and more for their people to work efficiently.

Organizing subordinate activities – They delegate tasks, structure work outputs, create schedules for team members efficiently so that tasks are effectively completed.

Teaching and coaching subordinates – They become mentors, they become sources of knowledge and they take this role very seriously. They often organise training for subordinates as well.

Motivating others – They are the number 1 cheerleader for all team/organisation members. This leader is the one that believes in his or her people.

Intervening actively in the group’s work – they pay attention to what the group or team as a whole is producing, they immerse themselves in the process and they make the end product better where they can.

You should by now see the strength of this style of leadership, it’s a game changer.

Reference

Hackman and Walton (1986), Hackman & Wageman (2005), Morgeson (2005)), Klein, Zeigert, Knight, and Xiao (2006)